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Sexual fantasies are without a doubt the most common kind of sexual experience and are a part of the vast majority of men's and women's psychological landscape. They are completely private and safe and can actually be enhancing. Fantasies are a way of giving your sexual feelings a holiday--you can try different partners, positions, and situations without having to be accountable--or worry about disease. Fantasy can allow one to role play upcoming encounters, temporarily escape from real life, relieve pent up pressures, or most commonly to intensify sexual arousal during masturbation or love making. Most experts on sexuality see nothing wrong with sex fantasies. Standard clinical wisdom holds that, so long as fantasy does not harm anyone, it is not a problem and, indeed, can even enhance a couple's sex life. Sexual fantasies are an important element of sexual life. A person who doesn't have any fantasies, is either too embarrassed to talk about them, or never in the mood to have sex. Any fantasy that can increase your desire for your partner, even if unconnected to him or her can be considered healthy. It is healthy to cultivate sexual thoughts, even if they include things you would never want to put into practice. They tell you what you find erotic. In fact, fantasizing is a fundamental part of human nature. Evidence suggests that those who fantasize the most are in happy, loving, trusting relationships. It’s in this kind of context that the mind explores places the body has no intention of visiting. Sex generally starts in the brain, thus an active imagination can mean you’re ready for sex before anything physical has happened. Therefore, desire is heightened and arousal is much quicker. Certain people find an active fantasy life able to add novelty to a long-standing sexual relationship. This can be particularly helpful if your partner is not as sexually adventurous as you are. Fantasy offers an opportunity to give your imagination free rein and to play out roles if one finds it too embarrassing to experiment in bed. It can be used as a practice arena where one is able to build confidence before embarking on something new. In psychosexual therapy, fantasy is often used to block out negative thoughts. If during sexual encounters, one’s mind wanders to unhelpful images or thoughts, fantasy can help to refocus on sexual pleasure. Sexual fantasies may have a healthy stabilizing effect. Fantasies help to bridge the gap between our hidden urges and the way we’re expected to behave Professionals often consider having no fantasies as an unhealthy sign.

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